As someone who has spent a lot of their life without a significant other, I’ve always found Valentine’s Day an odd experience to say the least. Often times it’s an unwelcome reminder that I’m on my own, that I don’t have anyone to share my life with at the present time. It’s like having someone point a finger at a hole in your life. Other times I just try and ignore it and pretend like it’s a non-event. (more…)
Your friendships will evolve over time to reflect your own personal expansion, growth and wholeness; those who were once your closest confidants may no longer feel resonant a few years down the line, and those who you would not have shared common ground with once upon a time may suddenly fascinate, inspire and galvanise you. (more…)
Yes, you did read that correctly! It’s never really a win/lose outcome – it’s actually either a win-win or lose…
Why… you ask? Because the minute you view any kind of disagreement, debate or difference of opinion in the terms of winning or losing – you’ve already lost!
Hopefully you’ll be familiar with the expression ‘you may have won the battle, but you haven’t won the war’. Well that kind of applies here. You may have won the argument, and prevailed in ensuring that your point of view came out on top, but at the same time you unwittingly damaged the relationship – hence you really lost overall. (more…)